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Couples Retreat – Creating New Pathways

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Welcome to our coaching experience for Couples!  

How incredibly empowering would it feel to know how to maintain a vibrant ongoing relationship?

What if you create your best years together yet to come?

Now is the time to seize the moment to refill your relationship reserves before they run dry. 

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“Sometimes you gotta create what you want to be part of.” Geri Weitzmann

At Coaching to Connection we offer brief, intensive retreats to help you, and your partner move through your stuck habits to a more mutually meaningful and enjoyable relationship. Take charge and change direction to prevent irreparable relationship consequences in the future. Learn new skills for breaking through old patterns that have held you back from breaking the mold you’re in. 

Showing up with a willingness to make changes is where your retreat journey begins!

Your own future is what needs your attention now, and this is the place and the time to reveal and reflect.

We love this special, exciting, challenging, and spiritual time in people’s lives the most—it’s time to grow!

Together, we will board the “submarine” and dive deeply into the places where the answers are waiting to be heard and transformed.

Our days together will be filled with a unique and varied coaching  process that is always in the moment and always tailor-made for both of you and each of you individually.

We follow and stimulate the needs and mood of each unique couple as it serves each of you as a partner.

Being in a committed partnership of any kind is a long term project. 

That’s a long time- what are you going to do? Who do you want to become? How do you feel about your own life, changing, developing, aging? All of these needs, wants, dreams for both partners feed into the identity of “ the couple.” 

Three beings must be served: me, you & us.

So, get started  and let’s sort out your relationship puzzle together!

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“We either make ourselves happy or miserable. The amount of work is the same.” Carlos Castaneda

What makes this retreat different from other couple’s retreats? 

We focus directly and immediately on the needs of you as a couple that are not being met. Over this 4 day retreat, you will receive roughly 20 hours of intensive coaching with two experienced life coaches. In addition, you may choose options for a single or couple’s massage, dining out and taking walks to have time to allow the coaching process to absorb and re-inspiration to happen!

You will also spend time  to reflect, write, create, dream, and listen to the voice of your heart. There are so many quiet and cozy places in or around town to take breaks.

You will start seeing your life and yourself through a new lens, get ideas about what steps you might take next, get to know each other in different ways. 

“You will discover who you’ve become to yourself and each other in this relationship”.  

“To grow into our largest best selves, we must be able to claim our own lives. We must sort out what we truly desire and then go for it.” Mary Pipher said it beautifully – this is why we all came here! Let’s go for it.

And what’s “in it” for you? 

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“I can do nothing for you than work on myself. You can nothing for me than work on yourself!” Ram Dass

You will feel how great it is to unapologetically take care of yourself, your needs first so you make better choices about who, what, why, and how you give to others, particularly your partner!

You’ll be relieved, energized, and excited so you engage and reclaim your feelings again!

You will feel much lighter, cleared-eyed and able to see the beauty in yourself and your partner so you can feel good about your life!

You will discover how you’ve fallen short of caring for some of your deeper needs, so you can reprioritize and include your needs more effectively in your daily living!

You will find new perspectives on past events and loyalties that have bound you, so you can gently release these burdens to be free to move on.

You will gain a new understanding for the choices you make and the challenges you face by taking the time to review your lives together.

You will feel re-empowered to claim the most important purpose and meaning for your life now as a couple and for your future together– this is your centerpiece for planning and decision-making.

You will both experience a shift in your perspective so you can realize new opportunities for your life as a couple  and you will get ongoing support to implement the changes you want to make into your daily lives, individually and together.

Would THAT be worth traveling to the Pacific Northwest for? 

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YOU bet! 

Here are your Bonuses: 

  1. FREE pre-retreat Zoom meeting where we get to know each other and answer all upcoming questions.
  2. Free post zoom call with both coaches.
  3. Special offer post retreat coaching package for your follow through process.
  4. A special personalised gift to support your relationship connection.

This retreat is much more than hashing out relationship “issues”- it is deep exploration, reflection, honesty, and courage for assembling the next version of your lives! 

This is a new opportunity for you and your partner!

The Venue

Make special memories in McMinnville! 

Nestled in the heart of Willamette Valley, McMinnville was just nominated as the friendliest small town in Oregon!

With an inviting climate that’s temperate year-round, McMinnville is a great place to visit in any season. Hospitable, welcoming, and very friendly, the town is an ideal destination for a weekend getaway or a longer break to unwind, explore, and choose your own adventure.

Whether you’re in the mood to sip local wines, enjoy the Pacific Northwest scenery, or simply stroll the cozy streets of this historic Oregon college town where you can browse galleries, family-owned businesses, and unique boutiques, McMinnville offers a variety of experiences to make your visit unforgettable.

With art, culture, history, and some visiting UFOs, McMinnville is truly an out-of-this-world destination, and our Coaching to Connection workspace is right downtown on 3rd Street! 

Welcome to McMinnville!

Feel free to ask for our VIP offsite options for doing your retreat!  

Food

We are food lovers! 

We know and love the best health food places in town, and during your retreat days, we invite you to explore fresh, regional, mostly organic food.

Water, tea, and coffee, as well as healthy snacks like fruit and nuts, are included in your booking.

Your dietary wants and needs, whether you are vegetarian, vegan, GF, or have other dietary preferences, are in good hands in McMinnville.

What’s included: 

  • Pre and post retreat zoom call 
  • Daily schedule personalized to your needs
  • About 20 hours of life-coaching/counselling with two experienced coaches 
  • Course Manual – personal notes, inspiration, personalised exercises
  • Reduced rate post retreat support on zoom or in-person 
  • Resources for further research and support
  • Welcome drink during our first check-in meeting with you
  • Water, tea, coffee, and healthy snacks served throughout the day
  • Free parking available onsite
  • Wifi connection, though we encourage digital detoxing to maximize your experience.

What’s not included:

  • Flights costs
  • Travel insurance, we highly recommend you to have one
  • Accommodation
  • Meals
  • Airport transfer
  • Additional activities not included in the itinerary

Pricing:

2026

$3.999 per couple/coaching package

Non-refundable deposit $750.

Feel free to ask for our payment plan options. 

Your Host – Coaching to Connection

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Susan & Sandy

Susan Cook and Sandrina Weller bring decades of experience, insight, and passion to this transformative retreat.

Susan, a certified Retirement Coach and lifelong counsellor, deeply understands the urgency of embracing life’s next phase with intention and authenticity. 

With her warm, grounded presence, Susan empowers women to connect with their core desires and shape a fulfilling future free from regret.

Sandrina Weller offers a unique global perspective informed by her experiences living and working across cultures. As a Systemic Integrative Coach and Breath Work Coach, she helps participants break free from limiting patterns and uncover profound new perspectives on life. 

Sandy’s playful, curious approach and wide-ranging life experiences make her a compassionate and inspiring guide for women navigating change.

Travel information 

Book your flight to Portland International Airport (PDX).

Unless you rent a car, we can arrange to pick you up at Portland International Airport (PDX) for 100$ (one-way) and for 200$ (two-way).

There is also shuttle transportation available.

Do you have any questions? 

Schedule a brief online call to meet us “in person” and find out if we, and our Private Couples Retreat, are a good fit for your needs :) 

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“Love isn’t patient and kind and humble. Love is messy, and horrible and selfish and bold. It’s not finding your perfect half. It’s the trying and reaching and failing. Love is being willing to ruin your good painting for the chance of a great one.” (Hard is only half the story – Wendy Zahorjanski)

Open, on demand, 2026, 4 days/3 nights, one couple
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Recognize the symptoms that your relationship is losing energy
Restore your sense of self as a whole person in your partnership
Create ways to refill and reinvest in each other as a couple
Learn how to listen to what’s unsaid inside yourself to communicate better with your partner
Release hidden feelings that breed boredom, frustration and mistrust between you
Get clear about yourself and the person who's most important in your life
Learn how to let go of judgments, unnecessary obligations and burdens
Tap into your overlooked needs and desires and use them as your guideposts for your future.

TERMS AND CONDITIONS FOR:

Private Couple’s Retreat “Creating New Pathways”

McMinnville, Oregon, USA

Open all year, on demand, 2026 4 days/3 nights 

For all gendered couples, one couple

Retreat leader: Susan Cook & Sandrina Weller 

 

Making special memories in McMinnville! 

Nestled in the heart of Willamette Valley, McMinnville was just nominated as the friendliest small town in Oregon!

 

What’s Included:

 

  • Welcome drink during our first check-in meeting with you
  • Daily schedule personalized to your needs
  • About 20 hours of life-coaching/counselling with two experienced coaches
  • A one hour couples massage at our local massage place 
  • Course Manual – personal notes, inspiration, personalised exercises
  • Reduced rate post retreat support on zoom or in-person 
  • Resources for further research and support 
  • Water, tea, coffee, and healthy snacks served throughout the day
  • Free parking available onsite
  • Wifi connection, though we encourage digital detoxing to maximize your experience.
  • Pre and post retreat zoom call

What’s Not-Included:

  • Travel insurance, we highly recommend you to have one
  • Post retreat accountability coaching package designed for your personal post retreat follow-through success.
  • Airport transfer
  • Accommodation
  • Meals
  • Also not included are items of a personal nature such as, gifts, toll calls, excess baggage, medical costs, the costs of hospitalization and evacuation from remote areas, travel insurance and additional expenses arising from the delay or extension of a trip due to weather, political disputes, sickness, failure of transportation, or other causes beyond our control. 
  • Additional activities not included in the itinerary
  • Flight costs

Payment

A non-refundable trip deposit of $750 USD is needed to hold your spot in the retreat.

Final payment is due 2 weeks prior to start date of the retreat.             

Payments can made by Visa, Mastercard, Discover, American Express, or PayPal and include an additional 3% convenience fee. These payments are made online directly through our website.

Other payment options are “cash” payments by money order, cashier’s check, or Zelle. If you choose a cash payment option, we will provide you with our mailing address or Zelle contact information.  

If you wish us to provide you with a payment plan contact us at info@coachingtoconnection.com 

All payments must be paid in full and received by our office no later than 2 weeks prior to the retreat event. We cannot make exceptions to this policy.

Cancellation and Refunds

If cancellation occurs 120 or more days before departure, there will be no loss of your trip deposit.

Any cancellation made between 90-119 days will result in a total loss of your $750 USD trip deposit.  Any cancellation received in writing from 60-89 days will result in in a loss of 50% of the trip price. Any cancellation between 59 days and the trip departure will result in a total loss of funds. We reserve the right to cancel the trip if it does not meet the trip minimum (if we do so, your trip deposit is refunded). 

Trip cancellation insurance is strongly recommended if there is a possibility that you might have to cancel your trip. All cancellations and/or any refund requests must be made in writing (no calls) to info@coachingtoconnection.com before the start date of our retreat. Keep in mind that once your retreat payments become non-refundable as delineated in our cancellation policy above, there will be NO refunds, and you will need to report your cancellation to your trip cancellation insurance provider for reimbursement.

Coaching to Connection reserves the right to cancel any retreat prior to departure for any reason whatsoever, including an insufficient number of participants or logistical problems (e.g. acts of God, war, strikes, etc.), which may impede trip operations.  The refund of all payments as described in the paragraph below shall release Coaching to Connection from any further liability.  A trip cancellation due to insufficient numbers would normally occur at least a month prior to departure, unless acts of God, war, strikes or other events impede our departure causing large numbers of participants opt to cancel participation on the journey in the last days before departure. 

Coaching to Connection must make substantial payments to suppliers (including providers of land travel) far in advance of the scheduled date on which we embark. If a trip is cancelled due to forces beyond our control (acts of God, war, labor strikes, earthquake, flooding, etc.), Coaching to Connection will promptly refund the portion of the trip cost not advanced to suppliers. Coaching to Connection will use its best efforts to recover advance payments as promptly as possible, and will refund to you the amount recovered, if any. However, Coaching to Connection does not guarantee recovery of any or all of the advance payments made, and our use of best efforts to recover these payments will not include the institution of any legal proceeding in foreign lands.  This policy applies to a trip cancellation by client choice following any necessary increase in trip costs. 

Thank you for joining us on this journey and for your cooperation & understanding!

What if you create your best years together yet to come?

Now is the time to seize the moment to refill your relationship reserves before they run dry. 

At Coaching to Connection we offer brief, intensive retreats to help you, and your partner move through your stuck habits to a more mutually meaningful and enjoyable relationship. Take charge and change direction to prevent irreparable relationship consequences in the future. Learn new skills for breaking through old patterns that have held you back from breaking the mold you’re in. 

Showing up with a willingness to make changes is where your retreat journey begins!

Coaching to Connection, www.coachingtoconnection.com  McMinnville, OR,  U.S.A.



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